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When Softness Isn't Enough

Oct 17
3 min read

$99 early bird with code DURGA through Oct 31 (regularly $126)


There are seasons when softness is not enough.


You know the ones. The moments when something precious is threatened: your peace, your boundaries, the quiet truth you have been carefully protecting inside your body. A fierceness rises then. It is not anger for its own sake. It is love that has decided it will no longer stand by while what is sacred is diminished.


Walking With the Goddesses

I have met that fierceness many times over the decades I have spent walking with the goddesses. Each one carries her own medicine, her own particular way of holding the great current of Shakti that moves through everything. Some arrive like a gentle hand on the shoulder. Others arrive like a clear, decisive force that cuts away what no longer belongs.


One of them has become a trusted ally for me when life asks for protection and strength. She is the one who shows up when something needs to be cut away, when darkness or confusion has overstayed its welcome.


What I love most about her energy is that it carries the same unshakable devotion you feel when someone you love is at risk. Mothers know this strength intimately. It rises the moment their child is threatened. Yet even if you have never been a mother, you still know it. It lives in the part of you that will stand between what you hold dear and whatever threatens it. It is protective, clear, and deeply devoted.

Raphaela Fritz on the farm in a red top, hands on her heart

Strength That Comes From Love

So often women are taught that strength and softness are opposites. That to be gentle we must give up our power, or to be powerful we must harden. This energy shows another way. Strength that comes from love. Boundaries that are a form of care. A clear "no" that protects the deeper "yes."


When we invite it in, we remember that we are allowed to protect our energy, our families, our bodies, and our truth. We are allowed to cut away what no longer serves us, with grace.


It Waits to Be Invited

Here is something important: this strength will not force its way in. It waits to be invited.


If you have been feeling the need for more of this clarity and protection in your life, consider this your invitation. And if you already carry this strength and simply want to be reminded of how beautiful these teachings can be, I would love to share them with you.


Our Last Shakti Session of 2026

This fall I am gathering women for our last Shakti Session of 2026. We will spend a day together in the mountains as the season turns, held by nature and held by each other.

Shakti Sessions: Durga Fall Mini Retreat flyer, November 29, 10am to 3pm

Our day includes gentle yet powerful yoga, mantra and song with special musical guest Jessica Zoller, meditation and visualization, journaling, individual and group integration, an organic fall inspired lunch, and Nectar's new cedar sauna as the day closes.


When: Sunday, November 29, 10am to 3pm Where: Nectar Healing Hub, Barnardsville, NC


Self investment is $126. Through October 31, use the early goddess code DURGA to claim your seat for $99.



Prefer to pay directly? Send $99 by Venmo (@Raphaela-Fritz) or Cash App ($RaphaelaFritz) by October 31 ($126 after), with your name and "Durga" in the note.


I wholeheartedly invite you to join us. Come be held. Come remember the fierce, loving strength that already lives within you.


With love, Raphaela



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